From product manager at Amazon to Founder of The Starter Set, meet Jane Dashevsky of Seattle, WA
What happens when you spend 10 years at Amazon, love your job, love your team and then parenthood shakes everything up?
That’s the story of Jane Dashevsky. Becoming a mom of two under two made her start asking the big questions: What do I really want for myself? For my family? That entrepreneurial spark she’d carried deep down finally pushed her to walk away from stability and build something of her own.
Jane is now the founder of The Starter Set, an AI-powered service that helps parents cut through the chaos of baby product shopping. Because let’s be honest, the last thing overwhelmed parents need is another late-night Google spiral about strollers.
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This is a conversation about courage, resilience, and choosing yourself, and your family, even when the path ahead is messy and unclear.
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I'd been at my company for 10 years and I loved what I was doing and I loved who I was working with, but in the back of my mind, I'd always wanted to do my own thing, but like it was. Probably my hardest career decision ever. Hello and welcome to the Career Flipper Podcast. This podcast is really just me handing you a big old permission slip to check the rule, book out the window, and rethink your entire career.
You know, just an average day. I'm Jenny Dempsey, host of this show, furniture Flipper, and yes, after two years post layoff, I'm back in the corporate world again. Well, I like to call the investor in my dreams because. I can't go back to working how I used to work, and this job keeps the lights on while I happily and messily build my furniture flipping business on the side.
And for that, I'm so grateful. In today's episode, you'll get to meet Jane Dsky from Seattle, Washington. Jane spent 10 years at Amazon. Yeah, 10 years of building her career, loving her work, loving her team, and then well, she became a parent. Two kids under two that changes things or so I've heard. And she started asking herself the big questions.
Where do I see myself long term? What do I do with all these business ideas in my head that I keep sharing with my husband? What do I really want for my family, for myself? And that entrepreneurial spark she'd always carried deep down, got louder and louder until she finally made the decision to walk away from that steady paycheck and start something of her own.
But. It's not just anything that she started, she created the starter set a service that uses AI to cut through the chaos of baby product shopping. Because let's be honest, from what I hear from my friends that are parents, finding the right stuff from your kids is really overwhelming. It's exhausting, and honestly, it's just not the thing that you have time or brain space for.
And Jane knew this from experience and her dream was to make this whole process easier. And what I love about Jane and this. So is how real she is about the messy middle. She doesn't sugarcoat it and she's in the thick of it right now. She just kicked this off eight months ago and being so honest about the emotional rollercoaster of entrepreneurship.
This conversation is about dreams and courage and resilience and choosing yourself and your family even when the path ahead is messy and unclear even when you doubt yourself. I think you're really gonna connect with Jean's story. Let's get into the episode now
we are way back. I mean we're talking like, what was it, 15 years? I think I calculated that correctly. I can't count that high. Don't ask me. Yeah, and as we were talking before, I was like, yeah, that kind of just feels like, I don't know, last week or something. So what is time? But anyways, Jane. Thank you for being here on the Career Flipper.
I am really excited for everyone to meet you and also just selfishly excited to chat with you again and love that our paths have reconnected after so many years. Tell everybody about you, who you are, and. Where you are in what you're doing right now, and then we're gonna dive into all the juicy stuff because there's some good stuff here.
Mm-hmm. Uh, well I'm super excited to be here and yeah, it's wild, uh, that we've been able to reconnect. Um, but to introduce myself, I'm Jane Dsky. Right now I'm in the process of building a new service for parents called The Starter Set. And what it is, is it is an AI backed service that helps parents and families find just the right things for their children at the right time, personalized for their families.
And you know, I'm a mom of two. I have two kids, uh, two and a half. And a four. I'm always like, how old are they now? But anyway, I have two small kids and you know, there's just so much mental burden that comes with having kids and you're constantly thinking about like what they need next and trying to sort through all the stuff.
And you know, you go on Amazon or Target or whatever, Walmart, any, any store, and there's just so many options and you're just left with this like analysis paralysis. Feeling. Um, and so the goal was, you know, obviously we've been able to figure out personalization for social media and there's some personalization, certainly in retail.
But I thought, how great would it be to have a service that like really understood you and could help you pick the stuff that you needed for your kids? And so. Uh, that is what I'm building. I have a co-founder and we're working as hard as we can to, to get something out and starting with baby registries because those are 80 products deep, so, Ooh.
Wow. I mean, that's incredibly, like the, the thought that went into this to not only like help other families, but like it came, it sounds like it came from a very important place in your life of like, I don't know what I need, so why don't I figure it out. How did this all begin? Obviously, you know, having kids and diving into parenthood, but the career part, like how did this begin?
How did your career start? How did you flip into this, Jane? Yeah. Well actually for me it was at the time I was working in like a high pressure tech job and you know. Had two kids and was trying to figure out how to balance all of that. And I was finding myself like after the day was done and the kids were asleep and like, you know, having been able to spend some time with my husband, et cetera, like it would be midnight and then I'd be like, Ugh, I have to go order something.
Or like, you know, I just noticed my son is like starting to walk. Maybe I need to like, think about that and do I need anything for him? And, and so I would be doing research at midnight. And like looking at blogs and looking across retail sites and maybe like looking at an influencer or two. And it just felt like such a bad use of my time.
You know, like at midnight, like it just didn't feel good. Yeah. Yeah. It was exhausting. And so even just the part of like, oh, he grew out of his clothes and I need to like think about that again. You know what I mean? Like just mm-hmm. Just another thing on the list. And so it occurred to me that like. Uh, this was probably a problem that needed some solving and so I created a survey.
You know, my background was in product and you know, I had some training in marketing. And so like, naturally I was like, do other people have this problem? And let's go talk to some potential customers. And so, um, created a survey, sent it out to, you know, parent friends. I'd been part of a mom group, sent it out to the mom group and just asked people like where their pain points were, you know, if they were spending time on this.
And it came back that like, you know, 90% of parents were saying that research was a very painful part of their parenting prep. Um, and so it just felt like a problem that was worth solving. Um, and because I had experience in product from my previous work, I felt like I could kind of see and get my hands around how to solve it.
And so then it was just a question of like, am I. Going all in on this. Like, does it make sense to do that? Should I go all in on this? And you know, that's when the questioning process starts. Obviously, like when you make those big kind of career decisions. I'd been at my company for 10 years and I loved what I was doing and I loved who I was working with.
But in the back of my mind, I'd always wanted to do my own thing, but like it was probably my hardest career decision ever. Yeah. That's, that's a huge pivot from going from the safety and security of a stable job that you've had for over a decade with colleagues that you actually enjoy being around.
Mm-hmm. And, uh, work that you enjoy doing. And then to know that there's this entrepreneur entrepreneurial spirit kind of buried down deep. And I'm, I'm kind of curious because I think a lot of us. Well, at least you and me, we feel this way and people listening probably can relate to this. There's a, there's sometimes that spark that's buried below and we feel it, but we just like, okay, no, no, no.
I gotta keep the stable job. I gotta keep the traditional path. I gotta like, you know, I, I have kids. I gotta make sure that there's a paycheck coming in. But what was it about that, that feeling that you had of wanting to do something on your own that made that feel. I'm gonna say this, the cost of staying may have been more than the cost of going type of thing.
Where when did you know that it was the right decision to go out and do your own thing versus staying in that kind of stability? You know? Uh, yeah. Well, I'll answer it in a couple of ways. Okay. But one, I don't know, depending on your personality, and mine is like this. I don't know that you ever like. Know that something is the right decision, right?
Like until later down the road sometimes you're like, which decision will I be more comfortable living with? But like using the term right is so loaded and it's so hard. And like sometimes even now I'm like, did I make the right decision? What's the right decision? Am I doing the right thing? You know what I mean?
Um, and so I don't know, I don't know that you like ever get the sense of like, there's a right. I don't. Well, I actually don't know if in in life there are like right answers. Right? There's just different options and so like, the way that I thought about it was a couple of things. Like I, you know, it was a hard decision and so there were like a couple of thought experiments I was doing with myself to try to figure out what I wanted to do.
And you know, one of them was like, I like to think about like, which path would I regret least, right? And like, which thing would I be most proud of? Not to say that like what I was doing at my work, I wasn't proud of, I was, but like, you know, if I looked back on my life from, I don't know, 80 or whatever, which thing would I be most excited to tell someone I accomplished?
For me, it had always been my dream to do my own business, to be able to grow something from the ground up. Um, and so, you know, I felt like I had to take that chance. I'd been in a job for a decade, right? Like, that'd been the longest I'd ever been anywhere. And it would was longer than I ever imagined myself being there, which is a testament to how great it was.
Yeah, yeah. But, um, you know, I just really needed to think about like, ultimately in the fullness of time. Like what would be most fulfilling? What would I be excited to tell my kids about? What would I be excited to look back on so that there was that frame? Yeah. You know, I was also really fortunate to be in a position career-wise, where I could.
Take a step back, like I, I, you know, between myself and my husband, we could do it in a financially safe way, even though sometimes that's still panic inducing, but you know, yeah. You know, we could do it. Um, and my husband was very supportive because he'd also known that it was my dream. Like he'd heard me rattle off thousands of business ideas over the years.
Yeah. Maybe not thousands. I like to exaggerate. But, um, so there was that, and then I remembered actually getting career advice. From like senior leaders at my previous company. And I remember one of them saying something like, you know, sometimes you gotta like do the thing that you're scared of because that's the thing that makes you grow.
And that was also something that I thought about because like. At my last company I'd been in kind of the, the team and the position I was in for eight years of the 10. Mm-hmm. And like I knew it really well. I felt really comfortable even though there was always something to like grow and stretch into.
But like I felt pretty confident and it felt like there it was time to push myself into something that was like scary and uncomfortable. And boy, it has been. That just, that makes so much sense. And I wanna jump back to something about being right, because you're so right. You're so right that there is no way to know until you do it.
And then years later you have the kind of perspective to be able to look back and be like, oh yeah, that was the right choice. Or, oh no, it was wrong, but you just don't know. And to really just take that chance, which it sounds like you. We're like, this is it. Like this is where I'm going to grow. This is where I'm going to be able to help others.
This is where I'm going to be able to help myself not have these, you know, midnight, uh, search parties where I'm looking for. Um, I wouldn't call them a party. Yeah, there's, there's probably no confetti here. There's no cake. Well, maybe, I don't know, but, uh, but. You really leaned into that. And I think that's incredibly important to note for so many people who are like on the edge of like, do I do it or not?
You don't know if it's gonna be right and there is no right. So just erase that completely. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And what was it like when you put in your notice that you were leaving? What was that? What was that like for you? Can you talk about that? Until that, oh my gosh. I don't know. I feel like it was like a breakup, you know what I mean?
Like mm-hmm. You know, I feel embarrassed about this, but whatever. You know, you like put so much of yourself into work, right? Depending on who you are. I certainly do. I can't do things even 80% of the way, like I go 150 and yeah, so like I'd put myself into that work. Um. And it becomes like a part of your identity and like, you know, you see people you work with more than you see your family.
Really? Yeah. Um, and you know, the kind of job I was in too, it was like you could be on really at any hour, right? Because if somebody needed something or there was an email flying around, whatever it is. Mm-hmm. I mean, that's just our, yeah. Work culture sometimes in the us but. Uh, so it was really hard. Yeah.
Um, and I'd been there so long, um, and it felt like, you know, the beginning of something, but also the end of something. And it was different because I wasn't going to a secure next job. Uh, so that also felt really hard because it was like I was going, I wasn't sure I was making the right decision, quote unquote.
I. Felt a little uncertain. Yeah. Um, so it was bittersweet, I would say. Like it was exciting to like, have made that step toward a dream that I've had, and hopefully it all pans out, remains to be seen, I guess. Um, but it was also super hard, you know? And yeah, there were tears shed, yeah. Yeah. And, and I appreciate you sharing that.
I know that's like a, that's a really. Pivotal moments and very personal moment. And I think, you know, a lot of people who are on the podcast and talk about flipping their careers are doing it because they don't like their jobs, they're burnt out or whatever. But this is a very different scenario where you did like it, it was a good job, you enjoyed it, you liked how you work with, and so I really wanna emphasize that for anyone listening because.
Whether you like your job or not, you can still make these decisions. Mm-hmm. Whether or not you know it's the right decision. But if it feels authentic to you, then it sounds like that might be the direction you need to go. Whatever is pushing you forward. And for you, there was more of a calling of like, I wanna start something on my own.
I've had this thought in my mind for, you know, years and now you're doing it and I bet. I mean, maybe you heard feedback, but I bet some other people when you put in that notice, were like, Ooh, if Jane can do it, I, maybe I can. And like maybe that like, you know, inspired other people on your team. But I just think it's a big, bold decision to put in that, and then you leaped into it.
And I think what's so cool about having you on too is that you are in the middle of this right now. Mm-hmm. So it's not like you just, you did this 10 years ago and you've been doing this for a while. Like, Jane, like how long have you been at this right now? Um, well, I've been at it, I guess formally for about eight months.
I wanna say eight. Okay. Um, but part of it was just like seeing if I could make something that, like even feasibly addressed what I was interested in doing. Yeah. Uh, and then part of it was like I was really convinced. That for, for me in this journey, it was super important to have a co-founder and that like, you know, one of the things I think about too is that it's not just about whether I can personally be successful or not be successful.
Like I feel very strongly that this product service idea should be out in the world. Yeah. Like however that happens, it should be out in the world because. This, like finding stuff for your kids and just retail shopping in general is so painful and so unnecessarily painful and like it feels like the pendulum swung very deeply from like the days of mom and pop shops on the corner that didn't have enough selection to overwhelming amounts of selection to like not being able to even understand what you need.
And so to me it feels like this thing needs to be out in the world. And so when I think about that, I'm like, well, what? Can give me the greatest chance of it really being out in the world. And I knew for me that was a co-founder. So, you know, I went through the process of looking for a co-founder. Uh, and that took me a couple months.
Um, you know, I went through the process of trying to take this thing that was in my head and like, I'm not visual at all. So like, finding someone who could help me visualize it and like design an experience because. Mm-hmm. That could also help make it more real as well. Um, and so like there were kind of steps along the way, but I've formally been at it for.
Eight months. You know those nights when it's late, you are wiped out, but your brain is like, mm, yeah, nope. We are staying up. Or the afternoons when you have so much to do and you really wanna focus, but the distractions and the to-do list in your head just will not stop. Yeah, I get it. I'm right there with you.
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You're doing it, and at this maybe more than two months, maybe more than, I don't remember. Yeah, I don't remember. A couple months. It's a blur. It's all a blur. Yeah, it is a blur, but I think this is, I mean. Uh, okay. I'm gonna, this might seem like I'm, I'm switching gears here a little bit, but one of the things that really stands out to me that you are doing is that the repurposing of your skills, Jane, like you had this job for 10 years and, and all of the things that led up to that job before that job in your career path.
Mm-hmm. Like the skills that you built in, whether it's product, marketing, all the things and tech that you worked in. You are re essentially repurposing them for this and obviously learning a lot more new things. But you knew what to look for in a co-founder because you've worked on teams before and you knew what you needed.
You knew what you needed to build because you've worked in tech before. And I, I love that because sometimes when we take these leaps and we're like, okay, what are we doing? We think we're starting from scratch, but we really have so many important skills from our experience and we're not. We're not just doing this completely blind, even if it, it is in a completely different industry.
So I'm curious. Can you speak to a little bit of the repurposing of skills that you have, that you're finding, that you're using now all the time that you're like, oh, I did this before, and it, and it feels maybe a little familiar, and then maybe some of the ones that you're learning, like can you just touch on that a bit?
'cause I think it's a common theme for people to leap and they're like, ah, what am I doing? Well, you actually do know more about what you're doing than you think. Yeah, I think that's like a super valuable point. You know what I mean? Like, it's just because I don't, I've actually felt this, so prior to being, uh, in my previous job for 10 years, like I'd actually switched not just jobs, but careers every two years.
And that's about right. For tech. Yeah. Yeah. Uh, like, and when I went into product in tech, like I had. Zero. I had gone and gotten an MBA and you know, a dual degree with an MBA and a tech degree, but like, I didn't even know product management was a job. Yeah. Like I remember coming into my first day at my old company and like.
My manager there asking me to do a roadmap and I had zero. Zero, which is like a basic Yeah. Product skill. Yeah. So, you know, like organize what we're gonna work on. Right. Like just basic product skill. Yeah. I No idea what that was like. Not a clue. Yeah. Anyway. Yeah, but my point is, I digress. My point is that what's interesting in every career step that you take is like these layers of things that, like all these experiences you've had that you build on.
Right. Something that I've found really fun about this new step is so in this space that I'm in, which is, you know, parents, moms expecting moms. It's super important to actually. Create not just a useful service. Mm-hmm. And we're in the process of building that, but also useful content because most moms are, you know, looking to their friends for advice.
They're using social media, they're following content that they like. Um, and you know, some of my previous jobs were actually, uh, marketing through creating content, and my bachelor's degree was in journalism. And my first job out of college was as an editor for a magazine. And so what's super interesting is like right now, uh, while we're in the process of building where I'm using the skills that I had from product and tech and working with an engineering team and all of that, I also am weirdly leaning back into all my journalism skills, right?
Because part of what I'm doing is creating content for moms. We have a blog on the starter set.com. And, uh, inspired by you Partially. No way. Yeah. Inspired by you. Partially. We also have a podcast, um, which is called Getting Started With Baby. And in that, like I'm interviewing all sorts of parenting voices, whether they're sort coaches or OBGYNs or other moms.
Um, and like that leans back into the journalism skills. So it's like this really interesting. Tapestry of all the stuff that you've done before, right? You just don't know how random skills are gonna impact you. And the other thing that I've been doing, which I'm generally terrified of, is, you know, so part of what you do when you have a startup and you're potentially seeking funding or incubation or support is you go and you like start pitching, which means you're speaking in front of a bunch of people.
Yeah. And you know, trying to seem charismatic and like you have it together. Um, and like I hadn't done that since my MBA program because in my previous company that wasn't like, we didn't really present like that. We presented more, you know, in the written form. And so I hadn't had to do that in quite some time.
Um, but I was leaning back into what I'd learned in my MBA program, like to talk louder than seems natural. You know what I mean? Because it, yeah. Mm-hmm. Makes you sound more excited and like, I don't know, weirdly gets rid of your nerves. But anyway, so yeah, you just pick up stuff from everywhere. That E.
Exactly. That was so well said. And the word tapestry that you used I think really captures that so well. It is these, all these things woven together and you don't know how they're gonna show up or when they're gonna show up, or how you're gonna be able to repurpose them for whatever new path. Life, whether it's a career, a hobby, or just, I don't know, daily living, like you just don't know.
And so having those there and knowing that you're not starting from scratch, you do have a lot to build upon. And so you took the leap and you're in it. And w. Where are you now? Like as far as building it goes? What's like a day to day like for you now? Like, 'cause you're, you're working remote at home, right?
Mm-hmm. So you're with your kids. Mm-hmm. And so you're also doing, kids are thankfully in daycare day. There we go. There we go. And like, what is a normal day like for you as you kind of work through this and build this? Yeah. So I mean it, the nice thing is it can be varied. Uh, I have time to kind of like dig in and pursue things that I'm like trying to get better at or interested in or whatever.
Mm-hmm. But most days include me trying to figure out Instagram, which is not a natural, it's not natural for me. Uh, so there's that. Mm-hmm. Somewhat painful journey. And, you know, uh, creating content, looking for guests for the podcast because we're kind of doing parallel tracks between me and my co-founder right now, and like some collaboration.
So on the one hand, we're working on kind of building up the content and marketing and community side of what we're doing as we're building actively. Mm-hmm. On the other end, uh, you know, I'm working really closely with my co-founder, who's, uh, responsible for the engineering portion of what we're doing.
Um, creating requirements, reviewing how the results are looking so far, planning for testing and beta with, uh, customers or potential customers. Um, so there's that part. Um, occasionally it's looking through. You know, the startup community, I'm in the Seattle area, so the startup community in the Seattle area to figure out like, is there an event I should be a part of?
Should I be doing a pitch? Should I be talking to someone, um, you know, going to some startup meetups and things like that. So it, it can be kind of varied. Yeah. So it keeps you on your toes and you're busy and you're constantly in the exploration phase and testing phase. And you know, let's say a year from now, where do you see yourself and your co-founder at?
Like where, where's the vision going? Like if you were, like, we were talking this time next year, like what would you be saying? Uh, well within a year, oh boy, there better be a live product. Um, so, you know, we're hoping to have a live end-to-end product available for customers in the next couple of months.
We should be ready to start testing in the next few weeks. Um, and the goal is to see how customers respond and, and to really help. You know, we're starting by creating a fully customized personalized baby registry. And so the goal with that is that we can help expecting parents get through their baby registry phase with much less stress, with much less research.
Like there's this mind boggling statistic that it can take, you know, upwards of 40 hours just to do a baby registry. Like, that's nuts. You know what I mean? It's crazy, isn't it? Yeah. I mean, so there's that. I mean that there is like 80 plus products you're looking through that like many of them you've never even heard of, like mm-hmm.
I'm trying to think of one where I was like, what on earth is that thing? I don't know. Still some parents I'll be like, have you heard of a white warmer? They don't know what that is. You know, there's just like stuff that if you haven't gone through it, even if you're going through it a second time or third time or whatever, like, you know, it's just a learning curve all the time.
So the goal is. Within a year that we're actually actively able to help parents reduce that research burden and decision fatigue. Ooh. Yeah. I mean, the hours that you're gonna save people, um, I mean, I didn't realize that that's how much work went into a registry. 'cause I will say as a, an auntie or you know, especially auntie too, whether my actual family or friend's, kiddos looking at these registries, I don't even know what to pick.
I always am like. What would I, what's the best thing I could get for them? I don't know, half of these things are, and if I get clothes, like is that gonna be helpful? Like, so even like looking at it from the other angle of like, if I could look at a registry as an ant and know that this is actually gonna help them, that saves me time and stress too of like buying this.
And so it's kind of like this across the board supporting. Families in a way where they're actually going to get the things that they need, um, and be able to use. 'cause it also seems like every day there's some new, uh, kid product out there. Yeah. You lose something or other. And I mean, what did you say? A white warmer.
Like what? Like I Yeah, exactly. You heard of that? I mean, it's just, yeah. Well, and some of the stuff is like, you don't actually need it, but you don't know that you don't need it. It's, oh gosh. Yeah. I mean, it's just really hard. Like I've had friends who told me that they were so overwhelmed. They opted out.
They had their husbands look at it. They were like, can't do it. Yeah, yeah. You know what I mean? It's mm-hmm. It is very overwhelming. Yeah, it is. It, it's a lot. It's a lot. And you're doing something to solve this, and you're in it and you know, on your own career path, you're building it and you're taking that leap.
Do you have a timeframe that you're like, if this isn't done by X, then. You are reevaluating different things. Obviously that's not gonna be the case, but I think sometimes when people leap into these, we, we build this in our mind of like, I'm gonna give it a year, or I'm gonna give it five year, or whatever it is.
You know, maybe how much savings do you have? Like, I'm just curious if that is something that applies at this point or you're just like, I'm all in. There's no other option. Uh. No, I feel like there was some, I don't know, maybe it was a quote from Bezos, Jeff Bezos or something about how like you have to both as a founder, you have to both be like, while well like optimistic that it's gonna succeed, but also realistic that like 90% of the time these things fail.
So like, you know, it's hard to hold that duality in your head. Um. And that's part of the challenge of doing something like this. But, uh, yes, of course I have gates on. Like, does this make sense? Right? So I think I am sort of waiting to see like. You know, we've broken it down. So like the idea is that we want to build for phases past the baby registry, but we've broken it down to like, let's release one thing and see how it does and see how it helps parents and see what, where we take it from there.
If that doesn't resonate with parents, and certainly we're doing research along the way to like convince ourselves that this makes sense to put time into, but like if it ends up not resonating or whatever, I mean that's certainly a big signal and that's not necessarily time bound, although, you know, we wanna make sure we have something that's achievable to build.
Yeah. Within, you know, six months, a year, whatever it is. And then for me, like all in time-wise, it feels like I need to get to. Some sort of financial solvency within, I don't know, maybe a two, two year window or something like that. I think about it, like to me it's like as if I am going back and, you know, creating like an educational opportunity for myself and so I'm like, well, I sanc, you know, whatever, two years into my MBA.
Yeah. Like I'm willing to put, not sanc, but like I put two years into an MBA and I'm willing. To think about it in the same way, in the sense that this is like a journey of like learning a whole bunch of new skills, having different experiences, and I'm willing to think about it in that same light. Yeah, that is a great perspective to have on it and just to, to do it like you're doing it, you're taking the steps and I'm really curious, Jane of.
You know, from what you're learning about just going for it and building in these gates and just, you know, testing everything out, experimenting, having the plans and structure and strategy that you're building. For someone listening right now who might be in their job and maybe they love it, maybe they don't, but they feel that same feeling.
You felt, I wanna do something on my own one day. Do you have a piece of advice for them that might guide them on how to really. Be okay with that decision that it's okay to wanna do something on your own one day? What, what would you say to that person? I mean, I guess I would say two things, which is one, like, listen, you only live once.
Like do the things that you feel like are exciting to you. But like also, you know, my husband at some point when I was trying to like make this decision would always say things like. You gotta like treat life more like a video game sometimes, like take it a little less seriously. Like, you know, if this doesn't work out, you'll do something else.
Whatever. You know? And like sometimes it's hard to, to have that perspective. So one, you know, like decide what matters to you in life and you know, whether you want to pursue something, what you'll regret, least, et cetera. The other thing is like really deeply know yourself, you know what I mean? Like, take stock of yourself and you're.
Uh, emotional bandwidth. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Because if you do this, uh, for most people, success will not be overnight. Uh, you will have many, many moments of doubt, like many. Mm-hmm. Uh. Figure out the things that pull you out of the troughs. You know what I mean? My husband likes to make fun of me because I'm like a rollercoaster, like peak, trough, peak, trough.
You know? Luckily, I think my co-founder is more even kil, but I am, I'm not. Yeah. And so I've had to think about like, what are those things that will get me through a day when I'm feeling like, what have I, like, am I doing anything? Is this going anywhere? Am I yelling into a void? You know what I mean?
Mm-hmm. Uh, it might be something like. Take yourself out to lunch that day. Mm-hmm. You know what I mean? Or, uh, I got myself these like, um, affirmation cards and I like pull one out every day and it'll say things like, you know, you're living your best life, or whatever. I don't know. Yeah. Just something to like recenter me outside of my own head.
Mm-hmm. And whatever it is, that's not what will work for everybody, but like, you gotta know yourself well enough to know, like, if faced with this like. Are you going to be able to weather the extreme uncertainty and the weight? Mm-hmm. And the not knowing if it will succeed? Mm-hmm. Yeah. And the trying to take positive Yeah.
And trying to take small signals from the universe, even if like you're not sure if you're on the right track. So. Like know what you want out of life and know yourself. I would sum it up as that. That is really great. Like just such real advice. I mean, it's so true. The storms are no joke and the self-doubt, you know, when you're not sure exactly what you're doing, it's gonna like crush you at some points and yeah, it's like.
What do you do then? Can you weather that? Because this thing that you're creating needs you to be able to weather that in order to grow and move forward. And you're doing it, you're fricking doing it, Jane. Yeah. And you're setting the example to all of us. And the fact that you're like in it right now is just, it's really inspiring because I think a lot of the people I talk with are folks who have done it and they're, you know, past it.
And it's like, but wait, these moments when we're in it, because. Uh, girl, I'm right there with you. I'm in the middle of it too, and I am like figuring this out, and I'm like, all right, I don't know what's next, but I'm gonna try this and keep going. And yeah, I appreciate you sharing all of this with us. And I'm, I'm so curious too, like if people want to get involved with some of the testing or they wanna learn more about the starter set, listen to the podcast.
Read the blog. Where, where can they connect with you? How can they find you? Where are all the places to go? Yeah, I would love that if they'd like to connect with us. So, um, I would say if they're interested in signing up or testing or getting the latest on what's going on with us, uh, go to the starter set.com.
We have a sign up list there. Um, and that's also where our blog is. Um, if they're interested in hearing more about the parenting experience or from parenting. Uh, voices from across the spectrum, they can find us on getting started with Baby. Uh, that's a podcast that's available. Spotify, apple, YouTube, uh, and also can be found on our site.
Um, and then also we're on Instagram at the starter set, so, uh, feel free to follow us there as well. Absolutely, this is great and everything will be in the show notes. I hope people connect with you. Jane, thank you so much again. I, I love this chat. I loved connecting with you and just so glad we kept in touch over all these years.
Oh, me too. Thank you so much for having me. It was super fun. Thanks for hanging out with me and Jane on this episode of the Career Flipper podcast. You'll find all the ways to connect with Jane in the show notes, and if this conversation lit, even the tiniest spark or made you feel a little less like you're out here, file flailing at it alone.
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